by Deborah Deras, Copyright, 2011
Letting Go is a state of Being rather than Doing. And since we are Human Beings we can practice success with ease and grace by releasing control. When we Control a situation or circumstance we become frustrated, anxious and upset because the time line in which things are transpiring are not what we have in mind. We become impatient, irritable and may even sabotage our success by acting impulsively.
Why? Because, we want what we want when we want it. And quite frankly we are used to getting things we want. We are very competent and capable and know how to get things done. We are great Human DOings!!! But this one area of our life: Career, Relationship, Body seems to be taking longer than expected.
The more we squeeze the vice grip of control, manipulate and conspire to force the square peg into the round whole the more we feel the resistance and push back. So, we try another angle and still nothing. Then finally in sheer frustration we decide to stop trying. If our way is not working then maybe this Job opportunity, Relationship, or Body weight is not for us. But, we really WANT it, really, really bad. So, we take back control and then again like the definition of insanity we do the same thing and get the same pathetic results.
So, again we release but this time for REAL. We truly accept that our life is great even without this thing, person, circumstance and focus on the gratitude for our blessings and then BAM it happens. Suddenly, as if the earth parted the seas we see progress, a light at the end of the tunnel shining brightly magnetically pulling us to our true heart’s desire.
But this is weird, there is no effort here it is just flowing. We are suddenly in the right place at the right time to receive that phone call, meet that person or have that opportunity. Is it fate, luck, destiny? I believe it is the manifestation of our intention that can only come to fruition when we let go of control and trust the universe will bring it to us in perfect time. This is where we find peace in the relinquishment of struggle and allowing our success to unfold in its perfect time with ease and grace.
FIVE R’s To Let Go of Control
1) Release - your vice grip on goal/intention but trust and know it will come to you in perfect time.
2) Relax - with the pushing, forcing and making things happen and know everything that is for you will unfold with ease and grace. If what you think you want doesn’t come it is because there is something even better.
3) Renew your mind by clearing it - Stop thinking about the problem and why things are not happening at the speed you like. Whatever it takes to clear your mind do it: Breathe in: Trust, Breath out: Faith. Repeat until you feel serene.
4) Rejuvenate- Take an Epsom salt lavender bath to clear any negative energy that you may have built up worrying or perseverating about the problem. Bask in the believe that your higher power is taking care of it.
5) Rejoice: Be grateful for all the many blessings in your life now. You can only create fertile soilin your garden of manifestation with an attitude of gratitude.
To your success with ease and grace,
Deborah Deras, M.S., C.R.C., ALSP
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